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A Lesson on Coping With Uncertainty and Misfortune

A Lesson on Coping With Uncertainty and Misfortune

Maybe so, Maybe not.

In times of uncertainty and chaos, when things seem utterly out of our own control, remember that even though we cannot control our circumstances, we can change our outlook. Only time will tell whether a situation was particularly good or bad.

Transcript

There is a Chinese Proverb that goes something like this…

A farmer and his son had a beloved stallion who helped the family earn a living.
One day, the horse ran away and their neighbors exclaimed,
“Your horse ran away, what terrible luck!”

The farmer replied, “Maybe so, maybe not. We’ll see.”

A few days later, the horse returned home, leading a few wild mares back to the farm as well.The neighbors shouted out, “Your horse has returned, and brought several horses home with him. What great luck!”

The farmer replied, “Maybe so, maybe not. We’ll see.”

Later that week, the farmer’s son was trying to break one of the mares and she threw him to the ground, breaking his leg. The villagers cried, “Your son broke his leg, what terrible luck!”

The farmer replied, “Maybe so, maybe not. We’ll see.”

A few weeks later, soldiers from the national army marched through town, recruiting all the able-bodied boys for the army.They did not take the farmer’s son, still recovering from his injury. Friends shouted, “Your boy is spared, what tremendous luck!”

To which the farmer replied, “Maybe so, maybe not. We’ll see.”

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