Intimacy Deck

Regular price $24.99 USD

150 conversations for partners to connect in surprising ways.

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Strengthen your intimate relationships with conversations that build trust, openness, and vulnerability.

It can be difficult to keep your closest relationships alive. With all of life's distractions and pressures, it’s easy to lose focus and get into a complacent routine. Before you know it, you forget the joys of what brought you together and you stop talking in the ways that you used to love.


Packed with 150 conversation starters, the Intimacy Deck helps you spark the deep and meaningful conversations that bring you closer together. Get ready to ignite more passion and fall in love again!


Pick a card, ask your partner the question, and see where your conversation leads. You might be surprised by the twists and turns your discussions take. These questions are designed to help you get to know each other better - so get ready to be open, vulnerable, and even a little uncomfortable. It’s worth it. The more you talk, the more your love will grow to a new level.


Whether you're starting a new relationship or reinvigorating an existing one, use the Intimacy Deck to talk in a way that strengthens your relationship for the better.

The perfect addition to date night

These fun and engaging cards help you introduce the same curiosity and excitement you shared on your first date together.

Reignite your spark

With prompts that encourage you to speak your truth, share your past, and plan for your future, it’s your guide to a healthier and happier relationship.

Get to know each other better

Use the Intimacy Deck to ask the questions you wouldn’t normally ask and learn about your partner on a deeper level.

Quality time

Put away your phones, switch off the TV, and use these prompts to shake (and maybe even spice) things up.

Increase and improve communication

Lack of communication is often the culprit of many relationship issues. By carving out time to truly be present, you’ll feel more connected with your partner.

Learn to speak each other’s love languages

Use the prompts to play a game. Guess your partner’s answer to a particular card and test how well you know each other.

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Customer Reviews

Based on 406 reviews
Should’ve gotten them sooner

This deck is full of a variety of topics that are fun to talk about, and give you a much deeper understanding of your partner, and even yourself. It’s fun to pull a card randomly, and find out something you have previously been unaware of.

Best Valentines Day ever!

We loved using this deck as a conversation starter over dinner and it was very revealing. Didn’t hurt that some of the cards were of the naughty variety. We asked each other the questions on the cards, but would tangent to other topics and let the conversation flow. Highly recommend for getting to know your partner and yourself better. I will be looking into getting the other decks as well.

Valentine's Day Review

Upon discovering the Best Self products, the intimacy cards seemed like a great addition to our planned Valentine's Day vacation. Not only was it helpful to put words to questions I never had the courage to ask, we were able to learn a lot about ourselves too. Even just setting aside time to focus on us was refreshing. For anyone who is looking to see where their relationship could go, these are highly recommended!