Intimacy Deck

Regular price $24.99 USD
412 reviews

The perfect addition to date night - 150 prompts to spark deeper and more meaningful conversations. 

  • Reignite the intimate spark and fall in love again. 
  • Get to know each other better by asking deeper questions.
  • Spend quality time together away and spice things up. 
  • Carve out time to truly be present and connected with your partner. 
  • Learn to speak each other’s love languages. 

Ships on September 22, 2020

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Strengthen your intimate relationships with conversations that build trust, openness, and vulnerability.

It can be difficult to keep your closest relationships alive. With all of life's distractions and pressures, it’s easy to lose focus and get into a complacent routine. Before you know it, you forget the joys of what brought you together and you stop talking in the ways that you used to love.


Packed with 150 conversation starters, the Intimacy Deck helps you spark the deep and meaningful conversations that bring you closer together. Get ready to ignite more passion and fall in love again!


Pick a card, ask your partner the question, and see where your conversation leads. You might be surprised by the twists and turns your discussions take. These questions are designed to help you get to know each other better - so get ready to be open, vulnerable, and even a little uncomfortable. It’s worth it. The more you talk, the more your love will grow to a new level.


Whether you're starting a new relationship or reinvigorating an existing one, use the Intimacy Deck to talk in a way that strengthens your relationship for the better.

The perfect addition to date night

These fun and engaging cards help you introduce the same curiosity and excitement you shared on your first date together.

Reignite your spark

With prompts that encourage you to speak your truth, share your past, and plan for your future, it’s your guide to a healthier and happier relationship.

Get to know each other better

Use the Intimacy Deck to ask the questions you wouldn’t normally ask and learn about your partner on a deeper level.

Quality time

Put away your phones, switch off the TV, and use these prompts to shake (and maybe even spice) things up.

Increase and improve communication

Lack of communication is often the culprit of many relationship issues. By carving out time to truly be present, you’ll feel more connected with your partner.

Learn to speak each other’s love languages

Use the prompts to play a game. Guess your partner’s answer to a particular card and test how well you know each other.

Less Screen Time. More Quality Time.

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Jessi V.
United States United States
Great relationship builder!

My honey and I have enjoyed this deck so much I decided to buy it for some friends for their anniversary! It's a fun way to discover and discuss things with your partner in ways you may not have the opportunity to do so naturally. Great prompts and money well spent!

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Jesse K.
United States United States
Intimacy Deck Review

My wife and I have been using the Intimacy Deck 3 to 4 times a week. We have been married for 42 years and have been a couple for a total of 48 years. We are finding the cards helpful in discussing areas that we have not discussed thoroughly enough over the years. The cards are extremely helpful for my wife as she has an introverted personality and it has given her an opportunity to find a new way to express her feelings.

Amanda R.
Keller, Texas, United States
GET. THIS. NOW. - game changer // stop being boring!!

My husband and I have been together 3 years, married just a few months. Both married before with 4 children combined. It's literally my favorite part of the evening when things calm down and we go outside with a few Intimacy cards and dig in. I have learned so much about this man that I had NO CLUE! Same for him. HIGHLY recommend to any couple looking to connect in more ways than what was thought possible. We will need a round 2 deck soon!!

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Ontario, California, United States
Intimacy Deck

Such a good game! My boyfriend and I play all the time. It’s a great way to learn and relearn your mate. I definitely recommend.

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Alex G.
United Kingdom United Kingdom
A Pleasant Surprise

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now, we had trouble initially but we’re in a really good place so I got the cards just as another thing to do together on an evening. I was really surprised at how well we communicated when we started the questions, we spoke for hours about all sorts and some things we’d been keeping back. I really do feel closer now and more open. Would recommend to anyone!