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They’re cute and actually get you and your spouse talking about things. I’ve been married to my husband for 10 years and every time we draw some cards, I learn something new about him. Fun little game.

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Bought more than once

My husband and i loved this so much we got the expansion AND sent this set as gifts to some of our friends! Heard positive things from them as well! Would buy again and most likely will buy again!

Emerald

Great Conversation Starters

These cards are great for new relationships and for couples who want to learn more about each other. My partner and I have used the deck more than once. Each time you go through the cards, you'll find out more about your partner.

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Fun ice breaker

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Effective and Entertaining

Great communication tool! Just started using it with my students (of all ages) and the variety of questions is expansive. Looking forward to including it in every workshop. Thank you.

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Excellent team building activity

Bought this on a whim to try in my adult leadership and developments classes.
Was a big hit. Started using in our eekly team meetings as well and our core group really had become passionate about our Friday meetings because we all get to get a little glimps into what makes each other tick and some insight into how we're each hardwired. Plus it's a lot of fun. Comes in a sturdy box that makes it easy for travel too. Age range I would say it's for 18 and up for developmental work purposes. Younger
people could play but not having as much life experience to answer as
intended would just make it a fun game. Highly recommended for team
building.

Kelnal

Really Nice Set

I like the IceBreaker set a lot. The questions are generally very good, and the set is nicely designed with a small, attractive box and sturdy cards. It's a great conversation starter. My only caveat is that it isn't really a game. Just sharing the questions is fine, but I wish there were two or three suggestions for game play. Still, I really like
the set.

calajane

Wedding Shower Gift

My friend loved it! I will probably buy myself and my boyfriend a box too.

Alicia

Great Collection of Icebreaker Questions

I chair a peer advisory group of business leaders, and am always on the lookout for good icebreaker exercises to get the group talking. This collection is excellent for that! The cards are color coded by category
- Dreams, Life Lessons, Exposed, ourage, Beliefs and Self-Awareness. This allows to pick a cateogry to focus on, or just andonly draw one. Excellent product!

IanKalinosky

Good set of cards

Some awkward/weird questions in the mix but overall good cards, asks questions you might not usually think of to better know your friends/partners

Andrew

Great tool to reconnect with your partner

This is a great deck to use if you’re just getting to know one another or have been in a decades long relationship. Want to reconnect without feeling like it’s forced or awkward? This is a good start.

Kbart

Way better than I imagined!!! Highly recommend

We purchased this for our overnight date night. We book a hotel once a month and stay inside, eat pizza, and chill. This game was like marriage counseling in a box! I mean we talked about stuff we never would think to talk about and we have been married for 18 years!Great for anyone
married, dating, engaged, etc. we did an art activity, answered the cards while creating a piece of art together. It was great.

Brittney K.

Way better than I imagined!!! Highly recommend

We purchased this for our overnight date night. We book a hotel once a month and stay inside, eat pizza, and chill. This game was like marriage counseling in a box! I mean we talked about stuff we never would think to talk about and we have been married for 18 years!Great for anyone
married, dating, engaged, etc. we did an art activity, answered the cards while creating a piece of art together. It was great.

Brittney K.

Helps with deeper connection

My partner is an introvert and it's hard to get her to open up. We pick a new card daily and it's helping us talk on a deeper level. Doesn't take long, it's fun and it's increasing our connection.Categories are
relationship, life, intimacy, random, about you and past.

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