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family memories with conversation starters
The holiday season is a time for families to come together, celebrate traditions, and create cherished memories. While the festive spirit usually brings everyone closer, using meaningful tools can make these moments even more memorable.  That’s why at BestSelf, we decided to create a new version of a favorite! The Family Talk - Special Edition deck is designed to spark engaging conversations, encourage laughter, and deepen family connections, turning simple moments into lifelong memories. Why Family Conversation Starters Make Holiday Moments Special? With the holiday rush, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement and miss the deeper connection that family gatherings offer. Intentional family conversation starters create space for everyone to share, listen, and bond.  By asking thought-provoking questions, families can open up in ways that might not happen in day-to-day interactions. These conversations strengthen relationships, allowing each family member to feel heard and valued, and the memories created will be cherished for years to come. Best Family Card Games to Spark Holiday Conversations   The Family Talk - Special Edition deck by BestSelf is a perfect addition to any gathering. With 150 unique questions spanning seven categories, this best family card game is designed to create engaging and memorable moments for all ages. Each category is color-coded, and a fun dice feature helps add an element of surprise, making it a fun activity that everyone can participate in.  Whether it’s around the dinner table, during a cozy evening at home, or on a road trip, the Family Talk deck can turn any moment into quality family time. Key Categories in the Family Talk Deck for Meaningful Holiday Conversations These are the categories you can find in this new version of the Family Talk:   Core Connections This category encourages families to delve into topics that reveal their values, beliefs, and shared experiences. Asking these questions brings out heartfelt discussions, allowing everyone to connect on a deeper level. Inner Reflections The “Inner Reflections” category prompts family members to look inward and express their thoughts and feelings. Reflecting together as a family builds understanding and empathy, providing a supportive space for everyone to share. Life Stories In this category, the Family Talk deck encourages sharing stories that have shaped each family member. This is a wonderful opportunity for everyone to hear about family history, personal achievements, or life-changing experiences that add to the family legacy. Everyday Insights With questions that cover daily life, this category allows family members to share the smaller, personal details that make each individual unique. From favorite hobbies to interesting quirks, these insights can add a new level of appreciation among family members. Fun Facts Learning fun and unexpected facts about each other adds a playful twist to family time. Sharing unique traits or funny memories helps lighten the mood and adds laughter to the gathering. Games / Activities It can be incorporated into various family games and activities. Use it to take turns answering questions during meals, play a game while traveling, or make it part of family game night. The questions encourage bonding and create memorable interactions for everyone involved. Reflect & Connect The “Reflect & Connect” category offers thought-provoking prompts that invite family members to open up about their dreams, hopes, and future goals. It’s a fantastic way to nurture deeper conversations that might not come up otherwise, creating bonds that go beyond the holiday season. Tips for Using Family Conversation Starters Here are some varied tips for using our Family Talk - Special Edition deck during the holidays:   1. Use for Game Nights Turn family game night into a memorable event with the Family Talk -Special Edition. Set up a cozy evening with a warm beverage, holiday snacks, and take turns drawing conversation cards for a fun, meaningful twist on classic games. 2. Start Your Day with a Question Kick off your mornings by choosing a question from the Family Talk deck. Whether over breakfast or during a quiet moment, starting the day with a conversation can help everyone connect before the day’s activities. 3. Add to the Gift Exchange Now the holidays are coming, place a Family Talk - Special Edition card on top of each gift or inside stockings to spark meaningful conversations as everyone unwraps their presents. It adds a thoughtful, personal touch that encourages interaction amidst the excitement of gift-giving. How This Product Can Strengthen Bonds Beyond the Holidays The Family Talk - Special Edition deck isn’t just for the holiday season—it’s a year-round tool for creating memorable family moments. Using our deck to start conversations regularly encourages open communication and fosters an environment where each family member feels comfortable sharing and connecting. The deck offers countless ways to stay close and engaged with each other, helping you keep the holiday spirit alive throughout the year. Make This Holiday Season Memorable with the Family Talk Deck This holiday season, make your gatherings even more special with meaningful conversation starters that everyone will enjoy. The Family Talk - Special Edition deck by BestSelf is a perfect tool for creating heartfelt memories and building stronger family bonds. Explore our selection of tools and games designed to bring families closer, and enjoy creating lasting memories this holiday season and beyond.
Introducing the Birthday Deck: Your Ultimate Party Companion
Throwing a birthday party can sometimes feel repetitive or stressful, but the Birthday Deck is here to change that. This deck of cards is the perfect tool to bring excitement, creativity, and connection to any birthday party game celebration. Whether you’re a host or a guest, the Birthday Deck adds fresh energy to the party and ensures that every guest has a great time. What is the Birthday Deck? The Birthday Deck is a set of 75 uniquely designed cards, each categorized into different themes, like Affirmation, Memory Lane, Games/Activities, and Wild Cards. These cards are designed to alleviate the stress of planning a birthday party by offering easy-to-follow activities and prompts that create memorable experiences. The birthday party games included in the deck ensure that each celebration is different and personalized. Ages That Apply One of the best features of this tool is its versatility across age groups. It’s suitable for both children and adults, making it a go-to for any birthday celebration.  For kids, the activities can be light and fun, like simple birthday party games that keep them engaged.  For adults, the cards can encourage deeper conversations and connections, helping bridge diverse groups of friends and family.  Whether it’s a 5-year-old’s birthday or a milestone event for a 50-year-old, the Birthday Deck adapts to any celebration. Why It’s Perfect for Any Celebration The Birthday Deck stands out because of its ability to bring something new and exciting to every celebration. Whether you're planning a casual gathering or a milestone event, the deck takes the pressure off by offering ready-to-use games and activities. Here are the benefits that this deck can help with: Adds excitement and novelty to any celebration. Reduces planning pressure with ready-to-use games and activities. Breaks traditional birthday routines for a fresh experience. Creates memorable moments filled with laughter and engagement. Fits seamlessly into any party, regardless of size or type. Ensures everyone is involved and entertained. Transforms casual gatherings or milestones into unforgettable events. How to Use It Using it is simple! Here's how it works: Shuffle the deck: Start by shuffling the deck and picking cards at random or based on specific themes you'd like to explore. Pick cards for different moments: You can use icebreaker cards to get everyone talking or choose deeper reflection prompts to spark meaningful conversations. Incorporate birthday games: Select fun, interactive games from the deck to keep guests entertained. Customize your experience: Choose cards that fit the mood and flow of your party for a personalized experience. Make Your Next Birthday Celebration Unforgettable The Birthday Deck transforms birthday parties by offering a fresh and creative approach to celebrations. Whether you’re looking to simplify party planning, add excitement, or create meaningful moments with guests, this deck delivers. It offers birthday games for all ages, breaking the ice and keeping the energy high throughout the event. Ready to turn your next birthday party into something unforgettable? The Birthday Deck by BestSelf Co. is your ultimate party companion!
40 Potent Quotes That Remind Us Of The Power Of Conversation
Conversations are a catalyst to deeper connections, fresh ideas, and a better understanding of ourselves and our world.
5 Tips For Sparking Meaningful Conversations
It’s powerful to create an intentional space for more conversations that matter. You’ll sharpen your curiosity, elevate your creativity, and deepen your connections.
A Checklist For Sparking Deeper Connections
Life feels better when we live it with people we love.  This is because it’s in our togetherness that we create the memories that last.  The moments spent laughing so hard that your belly aches! The beautiful tears that roll as you support each other through the pain. The intimate conversations that keep you up all night long.  These are the moments that we remember. Moments that touch us so profoundly they often change us. No wonder connection is one of the most beautiful energies we can cultivate in our lives.  Brene Brown defines connection as “the energy that is created between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued.” How do we create this energy in practice? This checklist is here to help. 1. Lead with vulnerability.  At an intuitive level, we want to fit in and belong. This ancient coding stretches back to the days when our ancestors needed to be inside the tribe to survive. If you became an outcast, your survival was at risk.  The challenge is our ancient brain still holds this fear. It’s why we can wear a social mask or hide the parts of ourselves that feel ‘too much’. But when we’re always holding something back, it’s harder for people to know us.  Vulnerability is a willingness to be more exposed with your truth. It’s a desire to show who you really are. Vulnerability can be a superpower, because when you lead by example, you permit others to take more visibility risks themselves.  In turn, our connections can deepen because instead of connecting on superficial grounds, we get to connect through our hearts.  2. Break the ice.  Meeting someone for the first time can feel awkward - especially if conversations aren’t a key strength! The trick is to find common ground. People like people who are like themselves! As soon as you find something that resonates, the conversation [and therefore connection] builds momentum.  It helps to have some icebreaker questions in your back pocket.  “What do you do?” is a little too cliched! Also, because people often equate ‘doing’ to their work, it can spark an uncomfortable conversation if this isn’t a topic someone wants to explore.  Asking about someone’s passions or hobbies can be a better way to kick-start a conversation. And if you want an entire deck of icebreakers, you’ll love this tool!  3. Then ask deeper questions. Most conversations are surface level. We dance within our comfort zones and what doesn’t scratch the edges too much.  Deep-dive conversations can be uncomfortable. It requires vulnerability. It demands that you explore topics, memories, thoughts, and ideas that you may not have fully processed yourself or ignite a fear of judgement if you were to share them with others.  However, on the other side lies the possibility of a deeper connection.  When you share the depths of who you are, you give yourself a chance to be fully seen, heard, and valued. When someone knows what’s under the surface, you instinctively cultivate a deeper sense of understanding, compassion, respect - and even love.  For sure, you want to feel safe in a deeper conversation, and it’s crucial you cultivate a level of trust with someone before you go there. But when you find the people to whom you’re willing to bear your all, the connection that follows is exquisite.  For deeper dive conversations, we love the Deeper Talk Deck. 4. Hold space Your head can only hold so much insight at one time. That’s why space holding is a little piece of magic. When you create and hold space, you create a receptive void, and that void is ripe to be filled with thoughts and feelings.  Sharing who we are is a beautiful thing.  And the ability to hold space takes the resulting connection to new depths.  We’ve all had experiences of talking with someone who’s only listening so they can figure out what they’re going to say next.  It’s why we know the difference when someone is genuinely interested in what we have to say.  Knowing someone is interested permits you to share even more. As a result, the thoughts in your mind unravel as you speak them out. It’s how conversations can create clarity, new ideas, and closure - as well as deeper connections.  5. Practice the three levels of listening.  Level 1 is internal listening. This is when you interpret what you hear in relation to what the words mean for you.  Level 2 is listening to understand. At this level, we’re less distracted by our own stuff and more interested in what the other person is communicating.  Level 3 is global listening. This type of listening takes level 2 to new depths by weaving in intuition. If you’ve ever had a hunch that someone is leaving something unsaid and you raise that, you’ve been listening at level 3.  When we cultivate the skill to dance between the three types of listening, we get to hear the people we love at a deeper level. In turn, your connections strengthen.  6. Be authentic.  Every human has instinct and intuition. It means we can often feel when something is off.  Authenticity helps build trust in your relationships. It allows someone to trust you, instead of doubting you.  Real talk - where you strip away the fakery and say it as it is can be such a relief! In our social age, we’re bombarded with other people's social highlights, and it can be hard to know what’s real and what’s shared to create a particular impression.  Authenticity helps us sink into what’s real.  And that deepens our connections exponentially.  Brene Brown also said that “connection is why we’re here; it is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”  We can often shy away from connection because it means we have to reveal who we really are.  But without it, we feel a sense of loneliness, isolation, and separation.  The ability to spark connections with others is a skill we can master. I hope the suggestions in this checklist empower you to feel closer to the people you meet in your life. Conversation Decks For Sparking Deeper Connections 
How To Create Meaningful Connections In Your Work & Life
There’s only so far we can go alone.  Magic happens when your dreams connect you with people who love you, support you, and bring out the best in you.  Remember, life grows richer when busyness is balanced out by quality time spent with people who matter to you. In other words, make time for the to-dos and the conversations that matter! Not only will you think bigger and achieve more, but you’ll feel happier too.  Keep reading to discover a collection of practical tips designed to help you build your personal and professional network with authenticity and ease.   Practice active listening  One of our deepest human desires is to be seen and heard for who we really are. Therefore, one of the best ways to build meaningful relationships with others is to invest your attention.  Most people listen to speak instead of listening to understand. It’s a subtle difference that makes all the difference. When you listen to understand, you’re not [impatiently] waiting for a gap in the conversation so that you can jump in. Instead, you lean back and listen with all of your being - not just your ears. This shift in the listening approach allows you to read between the lines so you can get a glimpse at what isn’t being said. You get to spot the body language signals, and you hear the signs in someone’s tone of voice.  Through the practice of active listening, you get below the surface of who someone is and start to see them for who they really are.  And in these moments of deeper knowing, your relationship strengthens and thrives. Be authentic & vulnerable  A lot of people are dancing an awkwardness between belonging and authenticity. On the one hand, we want to fit in and feel accepted [this is old, old coding]. On the other, we’re yearning to take off the mask and show others who we really are.  The question is, which part of you will win?  The more you’re able to strengthen your self-love, the more confidence you’ll unleash to truly show yourself. Sure, this requires vulnerability and courage. You need to be willing to show a little more than what feels comfortable.  But the shift in possibilities if you’re willing to ‘go there’ is profound.  Your vulnerability creates space and permission for others to be vulnerable too. When vulnerability leads, the true self emerges, creating space for deeper connection and stronger relationships. Ask deeper questions  Conversations are lubricants that deepen relationships and bring people closer together.  The trick is to move beyond the superficial, surface-level stuff and really get to know who someone is. Are you brave enough to ask the questions that crack people open and give you a deeper insight into who they really are?  If you only stay with small talk, you’ll only ever talk about the safe, ‘easy’ stuff.  Sure, it can be fun to chat about the game or the latest binge-watch show.  But how much closer can you get if you talk about all the things that lie under the surface? What could be possible in your relationships [both personal and professional] if you talked about your hopes and fears, your values, your life lessons, and triumphs and successes [to name just a few]?  Deep conversation is a catalyst for the meaningful connections that allow us to thrive in all areas of our lives.  It’s why we created the Icebreaker and Deeper Talk Decks!  Practice gratitude What you appreciate, appreciates!  This is where gratitude can inspire your relationships and help you feel more deeply connected to the people in your life.  When you make it a practice to appreciate aspects of the people in your world, you stop taking them for granted. Instead of focusing on the niggles and irritations that people inevitably stir up, you shift our focus to the things that make you smile.  Such as how your partner brings you coffee in bed, or how your co-worker has your back, or how your kids make you feel better when they hug you tight! Proactively appreciating people is a powerful habit to adopt.  It’s a small thing that makes a disproportionate difference to your relationships and ultimately your life.  Make quality time Your calendar or planner provides a powerful insight into what your life really looks like. It’s one thing to say you value your relationships, but does your time allocation back this up?  Meaningful connections require an investment of quality time. We know this in theory, but the practical application is often more difficult. After all, life is busy! It’s why relationships often get the leftovers, because other, more tangible to-dos get prioritized.  One way you can create a better balance is to schedule relationship time on your calendar. For example, diarize that coffee with a potential collaborator. Make a regular commitment to call a friend on a particular day of the week. Commit to a regular date night to keep your closest relationship flourishing.  What gets planned gets done, meaning you’ll soon notice the difference that scheduled relationship time makes. Life is a series of connections You’re right; it does take effort to surround yourself with the right people, but the difference this decision makes to your life is profound.  Decide to be proactive about how you create connections in your life.  It’s a commitment that will make a world of difference.  
The 3 Cs of Highly Effective Conversation
Conversations are the catalyst for so much in our relationships - whether that’s at work or home. But how can you make the most of the interactions you have with other people so you can deepen your relationships and build a network that supports you?  These three Cs can help... Curiosity  Next time you have a conversation, take a moment to notice the way you’re listening. For example, are you listening to understand, or are you listening to speak? There’s a big difference. It’s human nature to want to be seen and heard. We like talking about ourselves! But this style of interaction has the potential to erode at the fullness of conversation possible.  When you’re listening to speak, it’s almost impossible to hear what the other person is saying fully. What’s more, because we project our own situations and experiences on to other people, we need to be mindful of the perspective through which we’re hearing another person’s story. Sure, there may be similarities. You may be able to empathize with what the other person is describing. You may think you know exactly how they’re feeling or what they’re thinking.  But do you really?  Curiosity allows you to push aside your assumptions so you can create the space to hear what’s being communicated.  When you set the intention to listen with curiosity, you start to notice the nuances and subtle details that you’d otherwise overlook. In turn, you feel inspired to ask the questions that allow you to explore a little further and go that little bit deeper. You get to ask the questions that help you better understand where a person is coming from.  So next time you sit opposite someone for a chat, be a little more curious. Ask ‘why?’ to deepen your understanding. Bring an open mind and see how it feels to talk with your best friend or partner as if it’s the first time you’ve ever met each other. You’ll likely be surprised at what you discover about each other. Creativity The cousin of curiosity is creativity.  Whereas curiosity unlocks the courage to take your conversations to the next level, creativity inspires you to ask the questions you wouldn’t usually think to ask. In turn, you can unlock new trains of thought entirely and in the process, get to know someone way beyond small talk.  It’s easy to get lazy with conversations. It’s easy to ask the same questions which take you down the same paths, but if we’re not careful, the result is boredom.  What’s more, the longer we know someone, the easier it is to make assumptions and not even bother asking the things that would crack someone open!  Creativity is a great way to make your conversations more adventurous.  Leverage the power of curiosity, and you can unlock parts of someone you’ve never even seen before. For example, you could explore:  • Feelings and emotions• Motivations and drivers• Values and beliefs• Childhood stories and experiences• Hopes and dreams• Learnings and lessons etc.  And if you’re stuck for things to ask, question prompts are a super-easy way to spark a different kind of conversation. So if you’re ready to shake up the chats and catch-ups you have with your friends and family, why not pop an Icebreaker or a Deeper Talk Deck into your toolbox.  Connection  The more connection you can create, the closer you can feel.  The reason we have conversations in the first place is to feel more connected to the people in our world. The feeling of belonging creates a sense of acceptance, and because we’re social beings, this feeling is good for our soul! So how do you create meaningful connections in your friendships and relationships? Here are some techniques to try: Make eye contact. They say that the eyes are the doorway to the soul, and I think there’s some truth in that. Making eye contact indicates to the other person that you’re genuinely listening and that they have your full attention. [There’s nothing worse than being vulnerable to find the person you’re speaking with is distracted]. When you make the other person feel seen and valued, they’re more likely to be open with you - even up their level of vulnerability.Active listening. Conversation is one of the most effective ways to get to know another person. Similar to genuine eye contact, when you demonstrate that you’re truly listening, you’ll hear a lot more. Set the intention to master the three levels of listening and see how your effectiveness in conversations soar. Build rapport through mirroring. Have you noticed that people like people who are like themselves? We instinctively gravitate to people who have similar interests and values to us because likeness makes us feel understood. You can create this feeling of rapport by actively mirroring the body language of the person you’re speaking with. Now, this isn’t a game of Simon Says! That can get awkward, but notice what happens if you match the way they’re sitting or holding their arms. It’s interesting to know that while we can consciously mirror someone else, we also do this instinctively. You’ll likely notice this if you’re people-watching in a café or a restaurant. Watch a little closer, and you’ll see how friends start to match each other!  Conversation is one of the most powerful ways to deepen your relationships with other people.  Best of all, it’s a skill you can sharpen and even master with the right tools and intention. So make it your mission to evoke curiosity, creativity, and connection next time you have a chat with someone. Who knows what’s going to open up as a result.
Simple Ways to Rekindle a Lost Friendship
Do you have a hard time keeping in touch with people? Perhaps time has passed by and you’re unsure whether you should reach out again. Perhaps you drifted apart because one of you moved away, or a global pandemic shifted the dynamic of the friendship and prevented you from spending time together in person.  It can be tough to see someone who you grew up with and shared your secrets, slowly become a stranger. Sometimes, people are only meant to be in your life for a season. Other times, the friendship requires a little more effort to get back on track.  “You don't lose friends, because real friends can never be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends, and you're better for it.” - Mandy Hale  Here’s the good news - it’s not too late, and you’re not alone. Studies have shown that beyond the age of 25, most people tend to start narrowing down their friendship group, with women losing them at a faster rate than men. Mending a broken friendship can be challenging, but it can be very rewarding. The trick is intentionality in resolving those neglected friendships.  Keep reading to find ways to rekindle a broken or drifting friendship...  First, prioritize yourself. Before we even begin, it’s important to establish that all external relationships first begin with a healthy level of self-awareness, and putting yourself first. If you are prone to giving more than receiving, ask yourself - is this a friendship worth pursuing in the first place? Are you always the one initiating conversations and meetups? Why do you think the drift occurred? Was it due to circumstances out of your control, or did the relationship feel one-sided? Maybe even exhausting? Think back to how you felt when you were with that person. If this is a friendship that you deem worth salvaging, keep reading.  Remember the details and stay curious  Think back to the last time someone reached out to you out of the blue. Was it because they needed a favour from you, or because they genuinely wanted to catch up because they valued you as a person? Chances are, the latter group are the ones you want to rekindle a connection with.  The questions you ask someone that you’ve had a falling out with is a little different from those you are getting to know for the first time. To shift beyond the “How have you been?”, you could get the conversation started by leading with something you already know about them. For example, you could:  • Mention something that reminded you of them, and reminisce about a fun memory you had together • Check back in on the most recent topic of conversation you can remember • Be honest and acknowledge that it’s been a while, but remain curious and understand that people change over time Above all, listen intently with the purpose of understanding with a deeper level of intuition.  Lead into self-disclosure Conversation is not a one-way street, and re-building a connection takes time and vulnerability on both ends. “Self-disclosure” is a term in psychology that refers to “a process of communication by which one person reveals information about himself or herself to another.” By opening up to someone by sharing something closer to your heart, you are showing vulnerability which can help foster that lost emotional connection.  Once you move past the initial small talk phase, you can try asking some prompts from the Icebreaker Deck or the Deeper Talk Deck to inspire you with further conversation topics.  Rekindling an old or broken friendship can be an incredible feeling, but don’t feel too discouraged if things aren’t exactly the way they used to be. The disappointment of drifting apart from someone who used to be very close can often feel like losing a part of yourself, but you may be surprised at what might happen when you take the chance!
How To Spark Conversations For Change
For many of us, change is a paradox. We want it, but also we don’t!  On the one hand, we resist change because it’s so uncomfortable! Change requires us to get out of our comfort zone and do something different. But sometimes, change is non-negotiable - especially when you reach a point in your life where the status quo no longer satisfies. Whether it’s your health, your finances, your career, your relationships - even external circumstances - you feel called to do something different.  This creates a tipping point.  When the pain of things staying as they are exceeds the pain of creating something different, change happens.  But did you know that you can impact the pace at which change happens with the conversations you have? Keep reading to discover FOUR proven techniques that will help you spark conversations for change in all areas of your life.  Start with yourself  The most important conversations you have are the ones you conduct with yourself - and this takes a commitment to inner work.  Studies say that around 95% of the brain’s activity is subconscious. In short, our default thinking and responses happen on autopilot in reaction to our ingrained habits and belief systems.  If you’re unaware of your instinctive behaviors and thoughts, it’s harder to know who you are and what you want.  Journaling can help you discover the truth of who you are. Through the safety and privacy of your journal, you can: • Explore your thoughts and feelings• Challenge your preconceptions and work through your blocks and triggers • Get clearer on what you really want and what you stand for In turn, when you do have important conversations, you can come at them from a place of self-awareness. You’ll have more confidence too because you’ll be able to express your thoughts and feelings to other people with more clarity and conviction.  And that certainty can help inspire other people to believe in the change you want to see.   Active listening Most people listen to speak, NOT to understand.  There’s a big difference.  If you only listen to speak, you’ll miss out on the nuances of the conversation. You’ll overlook important body language clues and facial expressions too - all of which could give you a more in-depth insight into how the other person is thinking and feeling.  In the absence of active listening, you also subconsciously communicate to the other person that you’re not overly interested in what they have to say - which could cause them to shut down and hold back.  Active listening can open doors because it makes people feel seen and heard. You practice active listening when you concentrate fully on the other person. You make eye contact, ask clarifying conversations to ensure you understand, reflect what you hear, and avoid getting distracted.  Master active listening, and you’ll create space where the conversations that matter can really go somewhere.  Deep conversation How often do we settle for surface-level chitchat when talking with another person?  It’s tempting to stick with those comfortable, easy topics that don’t push any buttons, but it’s not necessarily the right thing to do.  As people, we are deep.  Each of us is a rich plethora of experiences, insights, and passions - and meaningful, purposeful conversations allow us to get to know each other better.  In-depth conversations are a great way to uncover someone else’s objections and fears. Digging below the surface can help you better understand someone else’s motivations and behaviors too.  And all this knowledge will empower you to spark conversations that matter.  So take a risk!  Ask questions that dig below the surface - and see how much more connected you feel as a result.  Be willing to be vulnerable Conversations can feel exposing - especially when we’re sharing something controversial or talking about topics and issues that feel uncomfortable.  As social beings, we have an inherent need to feel included. This is why the fear of rejection, judgement, and criticism can cause us to hold back from what our heart wants to say.  Conversions for change DO take courage.  You have to be willing to be vulnerable and step out of your comfort zone. You’ll want to speak your truth - even if it feels confronting.  So let your guard down. Take a chance [this becomes easier once you’ve done the inner work outlined in point #1]. Speak your truth and share from your heart.  Allow your emotions to infuse your words and be real. As Maya Angelou said, “Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with deeper meaning.”  As well as recruiting support for your vision, conversations are an incredible way to resolve issues, get clarity, and identify your best next steps.  In this way, conversations have the power to change who we are, what we think, what we do, and what other people do.  So let’s get talking 💕 Let’s talk - even when it feels uncomfortable.  Let’s share - even when it makes you feel scared.  Let’s go deeper - even though it’s vulnerable.  Because when we talk, empathy and compassion increases.  Understanding rises.  And positive change can emerge. Discover Conversation Tools