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Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection
Relationship Journals + Bonus Couples Course Journal Romantic Connection

Relationship Journals - journal journaling

The couples therapy workbook that transforms communication in 13-weeks.

Improve communication and deepen your bond.

Reflect on milestones and shared memories.

Set relationship goals together.

The Relationship Journals are a set of intentional, guided tools designed to help couples grow their love and become better partners in as little as one hour per week. Backed by relationship psychology, this journal fosters deeper connections and enhanced couples communication. 

Through structured communication exercises for couples, it encourages open conversations, trust-building, and mutual understanding. Whether you're navigating challenges, setting relationship goals, or simply seeking meaningful moments, this journal is your go-to tool for strengthening your bond and becoming the best partners you can be.

  • Guided prompts and reflection pages
  • Dedicated sections for setting relationship goals
  • Weekly and monthly check-ins
  • Portable and compact design for easy use at home or on the go
  • Premium-quality paper with a durable hardcover
  • Sleek, modern, and gender-neutral design aesthetic

Encourages intentional reflection and communication to foster a stronger connection.

Backed by research — explore The Science Behind the Relationship Journal.

Write together or separately, then share and discuss your entries.

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Relationship Journals - journal journaling

Inside the Relationship Journals.

The couples therapy workbook that transforms communication in 13-weeks.

Fill in the pages
Date Ideas
Date Ideas

Date Ideas

Goals and Dreams
Goals and Dreams

Goals and Dreams

Our Love Story
Our Love Story

Our Love Story

Relationship check-in
Relationship check-in

Relationship check-in

Snapshot
Snapshot

Snapshot

Real results.
Real stories.
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  • 5 stars: 27 (87%)
  • 4 stars: 3 (10%)
  • 3 stars: 1 (3%)
  • 2 stars: 0 (0%)
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C.B.(.
Marriage On Purpose

My husband and I started the journals a few weeks before we got married. We learned about ourselves (my arguments/discontent always stem from the same thing) and each other (he’s much more detail-oriented). So many discoveries that help us understand our behaviors aren’t disrespectful or forgetful—things that could trigger argument or withdrawal. Now these journals are a favorite engagement gift. Even the skeptics enjoy them as much as MDJ and I did!

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Christine B.(.
Enlightening and fun!

These journals were so fun and revealed so much for my then-fiancé and me—about ourselves and each other! We now gift these to newly engaged friends.

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Megan D.
Don't think about it, just invest in these

These journals created a big shift in our marriage. The ritual of carving out the time was VITAL for us. We made it fun and did it during the day (we both work from home, so just blocked the time on our calendars and made the space). The content was RICH and we've shared it with so many other people.

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Rebecca
Gave Us a Focus

My husband and I really enjoyed working through the relationship journal together. We watched the video and then did one activity together each week. I loved how it gave us a chance to talk about important topics we don't always get to in everyday life. The concepts are foundational for any relationship and the exercises helped us apply the concepts. There are so many mental health products out there that are sub-par but the relationship journal was well-organized, researched, and motivating to complete. Four thumbs up!

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Jesse M.
Great journey to build stronger connection

The journals have neen great thus far and truly build connection and allow for new perspectives to be gained by both partners

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Priya

Amazing product to help enrich your relationship

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Tina K.
Week 3 and loving it!

My husband and I have been going to couples therapy and we needed more framework between sessions to connect and share our needs and feelings. the Relationship Journal fits that need. We spend Sunday mornings with our coffee going through the session. I’ve been using the blank space after each session to journal what I’m noticing about myself and my partner and the ways I can be better with putting deposits in his love bank and jotting down all the things he does for my love bank. Then I go show him in the way he feels loved. I’m recommending this journal journey to all my friends! No matter what your age is, you can growth and be your best self!

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Anonymous
Very Happy

Great. Sharing it with lots of couples

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Tavia E.
So well thought out!

Honestly this journal really helped me communicate better and understand my partner better as well. I was really struggling to understand why we would clash on certain topics and this journal really helped me learn our expectations for this relationship and our weak points. So grateful!! Highly recommend

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Shaelea

So excited for this one!

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Herminia A.
Everyone in a relationship needs this gem!

I cannot begin to say enough just how amazing these journals are. They have helped my husband and I re-connect and connect in new ways. These journals have taught us to turn towards each other and see one another for who we are. It has given us a way to talk about the big scary stuff and reflect on the beautiful life we have created together. My husband was a bit hesitant when we started the journals, but he warmed up to them and enjoyed them as much as I did. The work was hard sometimes, but the outcome has been so worth it.

Thank you, Best Self for these amazing journals. I hope you will make more journals for folks in relationships to help us keep them healthy and on track.

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Diane

Amazing

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Brittany

It’s just the beginning but I feel more confident in my relationship with these journals

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Nicole

Love this journals ❤️

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Ingrid W.
Great starting point

Exercises were a great self-help strategy and setting the stage for addressing challenges.

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Zachary R.
Great Product

Purchased for my wife and I. Very good content that assists with communication.

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Doug S.
Covers a lot of bases and deepens bond

We’re only a few weeks in, and already it has got us talking about our needs, our relationship, and how we can work together for a stronger bond. At first I was skeptical but I also knew that it was important to get started somehow in rekindling my bond with my wife. Highly recommended!

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DAVID G.
Product hunting

Hello! Absolutely delighted with the journals. I made a purchase of several products to get know the brand because I am interested in selling some of your products in Mexico. I own a online retail shop here in Mexico and I think some of your products could sell very well. I already send an email for wholesales. Tyvm!

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Tom F.
Not received

I have not received this item yet. Somehow I was sent a Phone frame instead of the journals and I have no idea because I did not order an iPhone frame cover protector. Please correct this and send me the journals, which are what I ordered and paid for.

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Julie
Highly recommend the relationship journal to all couples

I highly recommend the relationship journal to all couples not matter if you are in a good place or a bad one. My husband and I have been sitting down most Sundays with a cup of coffee to do our relationship journal and it has made ALL the difference. We can feel disconnected before sitting down together, and then finish doing our work in the relationship journal and feel closer and more connected. We've been able to have some tough conversations in a very nurturing, mutually respectful, loving, genuine, and honest way. These tough conversations happen when our goal is to better our relationship while intentionally sitting down trying to connect not when we're busy with the day, work, kids, household responsibilities, etc. The relationship journals make an incredible wedding gift. You have to be intentional with your marriage if you want it to last. This is a very easy, inexpensive way to do weekly maintenance on your relationship and to be proactive in handling difficult issues. Our marriage is better, our connection is deeper, and our love has increased with the help of the relationship journal! Buy one! You won't be sorry!

**PLEASE make a volume 2!!!

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Tré J.
A Staple in our Relationship

The relationship journal is a phenomenal tool and all couples who care about their relationship should take the time one hour a week to work together in this extraordinary creation. - Wife

An incredible structured approach to crafting the most meaningful partnership possible. - Husband

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Colleen
Love this!

My husband and I have just finished the second week and these journals are so nice to assess where your relationship is and remind each of you about why you fell in love with that person. We really enjoy our time working through the prompts together and reflect on what we love about each other and how to make our relationship even better.

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Hailey Z.
Showed us cracks we didn't know were there

No matter where you are in your relationship, there is always room for improvement - even if you think everything is as good as it can be. My husband and I found some sore spots and minor cracks in our relationship from the prompts in this journal and were able to grow closer together and learn to communicate more efficiently through these journals. I highly recommend these to any couple no matter where you are I your relationship.

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Ariana D.
13 week amazing journal

My husband and I were super excited to start these journals. The quality of each individual journal is amazing, they are super sturdy and well made. I love the cute quotes all through out the journal and the guidebook goes into so much detail which was incredibly helpful.

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Customer
Deepen Your Relationship

This 13 week journal is fantastic and served as really great opportunity for me to deepen my relation with my partner. My husband and I also really loved how detailed and helpful the guidebook was!

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Nita R.
Relationship Journal Review

This journal was fantastic, I love the date night section like I mentioned in the video because I always struggle with dates but this journal provides a great place for me to write down any ideas and come back to them. I also loved going through the journal with my partner.

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Ana
Nice prompts but..

I wish the notebooks were able to have different colors. Dumb to say but sometimes it helps your mind and writing creativity when you have a color that you like.

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Tanika W.
Relationship Journals

We’re on week 3 and have had great conversations and revelations thus far. Great work on these! I feel like lots of research went into each page.

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Andrea N.
Looks like a great way to connect

Haven't used it yet.

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Jennifer B.
So Far So Good

My long term partner and I (together 12 years, married 4) got the relationship journal and have been enjoying it. We are only 3 weeks in so the 3 stars less represents the actual experience as much as a neutrality (we're working on a liker scale here). Both of us are teachers and see a few typos and confusing sentence structures that we can point out if someone wants to follow up, so there are edits that I am sure will be remedied in the second printing. We have gone through A LOT in 12 years so so far nothing is really "new", but its a really tender experience for us. Frankly the time estimated has always been about half of what we spent on activities. I'm sure it's hard to guestimate that, but a range (30 min - 2 hours) may actually be more realistic. Been really enjoyable so far.

Frequently Asked
Questions

The Relationship Journal provides guided prompts and communication exercises for couples, fostering open conversations and a deeper understanding between partners. It encourages meaningful dialogues that help build trust and emotional intimacy.

Absolutely! Whether you’re just starting out, have been together for years, or are married, this journal is tailored for every stage of a relationship. It helps couples uncover new insights about each other, rekindle their bond, and keep things fresh and engaging.

That’s totally up to you! Some couples enjoy using it as a weekly ritual, while others prefer to dive into it monthly or during special moments. The key is to make it a consistent practice, ensuring time to reflect and connect with your partner in a meaningful way.

While it’s not a replacement for professional counseling, this journal creates a safe and supportive space for open conversations. It can help you better understand each other’s feelings and perspectives, which can make resolving challenges smoother and more compassionate.

Absolutely! It’s a thoughtful and unique gift for anniversaries, weddings, Valentine’s Day, or even just to say “I care.” This journal is perfect for anyone who values their relationship and wants to keep building a strong, lasting bond.

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