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Intimacy Deck Intimacy Deck | Intimacy Cards for Couples
170 Psychology-Backed Conversation Cards for Couples to Deepen Connection
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Express your sexual desires with our easy-to-follow framework.
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The Relationship Deck has no points and no winners. The Intimacy Deck has no right answers. Both ask about closeness, values, and what you want next, at a pace you set. Keep one by the bed, bring one on a road trip, or open one over morning coffee. If you would rather get out of the house, It's a Date has 52 date ideas. The guide below shows what each deck is for, so you can pick the box that fits tonight.
Which deck for which moment
| You want to | Start with | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Talk over morning coffee or in the bedroom | Intimacy Deck | Prompts move from comfortable to vulnerable at your own pace, for new or long-term partners. |
| Cover values, fears, and the future | Relationship Deck | Prompts on connection, vulnerability, aspirations, and fun, with no points or winners. |
| Keep a first date or night out moving | Date Deck | First-date conversation starters, meaningful questions, and fun prompts. |
| Plan a year of weekly date nights | It's a Date | 52 date activities plus a date diary. |
| Talk about sex and try new things | Intimacy After Dark Deck | Two decks in one box: conversation prompts about sex and action cards to experiment with. |
Pick your deck
Intimacy Deck, $27. Conversation cards that move from comfortable to vulnerable at your own pace. Includes an envelope of Reflect & Connect cards. Compact enough to take anywhere, from morning coffee to date night.
Relationship Deck, $26.99. A card game for couples with prompts about values, the future, fears, and what you love about each other. No winners and no points. Good for dinner, a road trip, or just before sleep.
Date Deck, $20. Made for time together: first-date conversation starters, meaningful questions, and fun prompts. Pull a card when you want to skip the small talk.
It's a Date, $20. 52 date activities for a weekly date night or day, plus a date diary. Romantic adventures, relaxing and sporty outings, and creative projects, for all types of relationships.
Intimacy After Dark Deck, $34. Two decks in one box: conversation prompts for talking about sex, and action cards with ideas to play and experiment with. Contains adult content.
Nuestra Intimidad, $28. The Spanish-language edition of the Intimacy Deck, with 150 questions in six categories: Pasado, Vida, Intimidad, Al Azar, Relación, and Sobre Nosotros.
Bundles for couples
- Couple's Growth Bundle, $79.99: a Self Journal 2-pack plus the Intimacy Deck.
- Plan & Connect Bundle, $63.99: two BestSelf Planners plus the Intimacy Deck.
- Weekly Power Couple, $56.99: two Weekly Action Pads plus the Intimacy Deck.
- Helm + Intimacy Deck: Helm, our brass phone key, locks the apps you pick until one of you gets up and taps it, and the Intimacy Deck gives you something better to do with the quiet. Current price on the product page.
Frequently asked questions
They are physical card decks made for two partners. Most are conversation cards: you draw a card and take turns answering a prompt about your values, your future, or how you feel about each other. Others, like It's a Date, give you 52 activities to do together, along with a date diary.
For an all-around deck for date night or morning coffee, start with the Intimacy Deck ($27) or the Relationship Deck ($26.99). For a first date, try the Date Deck ($20). If you would rather do something together once a week, pick It's a Date ($20).
Yes. The Intimacy Deck works for new couples and long-term partners, with prompts that move from comfortable to vulnerable at your own pace. The Relationship Deck asks about values, fears, aspirations, and the future, which keep changing however long you have been together.
No. The Relationship Deck has no winners and no points. With the Intimacy Deck you pull one card and take turns answering, and there are no right answers. The point is to talk and listen, or to try something new together.
The Intimacy After Dark Deck ($34) holds two decks in one box. One has conversation prompts for talking about sex with your partner. The other has action cards with ideas to play and experiment with. The product contains adult content, so it is not a fit for everyone.
