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Helm + Intimacy Deck BestSelf Co.
Helm + Intimacy Deck BestSelf Co.
Helm + Intimacy Deck BestSelf Co.

Helm + Intimacy Deck

Unplug from distractions. Connect for real.

With Helm, block distracting apps and instantly enter focus mode. Create the perfect space for the Intimacy Deck, a set of 170 cards designed to deepen connection, spark vulnerability, and strengthen your relationship.
Together, they help you put your phone down and reconnect with your partner in a truly meaningful way.

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Unplug from distractions. Connect for real.

With Helm, block distracting apps and instantly enter focus mode. Create the perfect space for the Intimacy Deck, a set of 170 cards designed to deepen connection, spark vulnerability, and strengthen your relationship.
Together, they help you put your phone down and reconnect with your partner in a truly meaningful way.

What’s inside the bundle:

Helm – A handcrafted NFC device that blocks phone distractions and helps you stay fully present.
Intimacy Deck – 170 carefully designed cards with prompts and questions that spark vulnerability, deepen emotional connection, and strengthen your relationship.

Helm blocks distractions so you can be fully present, while the Icebreaker Deck turns that presence into meaningful conversations. Together, they shift attention from screens to people, making every gathering more fun and connected.

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Yesika
Great product to reduce screen time while working on Social Media!

The struggle to find a balance between working on social media and reducing screen time was real! I tried different time-limits apps but never worked for me (I'd just ignore them!). I gave this device a shot and so far... it's really working well for me, it's not letting me go into that autopilot scrolling mode anymore. Oh and I loved its precious design on my fridge!

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Sean
Distraction has been something I’ve been dealing with for years with my iPhone

Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, text messages… and the list goes on.

After I purchased Helm it has really helped me with focusing on tasks and increasing my deep work.

One feature I really like is that if you try to open one of the apps that is restricted during your focus time it won’t allow you to open it.

And that’s what I needed.

I’ve also noticed that the less time I spend on social media and mindlessly searching YouTube or the Internet the happier I am.

The more time I’m able to focus on work the less stressed I feel because I’m able to complete everything without feeling rushed. If I end up watching a bunch of YouTube videos or being on Facebook or Instagram then what happens is the next thing I know time has passed and I’m like ‘Crap, I need to get my work done.’ And that increases my stress.

So a massive thank you to Helm for helping me increase my deep work and my happiness.

The Helm device is really cool looking and the unboxing experience is epic.

Plus, I get the app for free for life. No extra monthly payments for it which is nice.

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Kate F.
Finally, a tool that actually works for my ADHD

I've tried every app blocker out there, Opal, Freedom, Cold Turkey. but I always found a way to bypass them. Besides how useful it is, I actually love looking at this thing. It's genuinely beautiful and feels like something from a design museum. My screentime has cut almost in half!

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Mauricio
incredible!

so elegant. very intuitive
I use it every day!

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Cindy

Great for helping create good meaningful conversations with your significant other!

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Claudia
Useful and well-designed.

At first, I didn’t think this product would actually help me reduce my time on social media, but it really works. I’ve been able to stay focused on my projects and cut down my screen time. I love the statistics it provides, and I think it has a very beautiful and stylish design.

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Sherlyn

It’s fun! 6 month dating partner & we take it on road trips!

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Jamie
Intimacy Deck

The Intimacy Deck is great for leading to deep conversations we wouldn’t otherwise have!!

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Anonymous
Love!

Love this deck!! I’ve enjoyed all of the prompts & it’s put together so thoughtfully

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Anonymous
Intimacy Deck

I absolutely love this deck. I bought it about 2 years ago for my girlfriend and I and she loved it too. We learned more about each other in the first week of the game than we did the first few months of our relationship.

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