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1. Start With Honest Self-Disclosure

It feels risky to share something personal, but studies show it works. In classic research, strangers who exchanged small, authentic disclosures felt closer within minutes (Aron et al., 1997). Even a light admission ("I still get nervous before phone calls") lowers defenses and invites reciprocity.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions That Invite Stories

Closed questions ("Do you like this?") kill momentum. Open prompts ("What was a small win this week?") spark stories, which engage empathy and shared identity. Narrative answers build bonding neurochemistry (Zak, 2015).

3. Lean Into Humor

Even a light chuckle rewires the moment. Laughter releases endorphins that strengthen social bonds (Dunbar et al., 2012). A playful observation or gentle, self-deprecating comment can ease tension without forcing it.

4. Shift the Spotlight

When silence lingers, redirect attention outward. Invite a quieter voice in: "I'd love your take on this." Group research shows conversations feel more rewarding when turns are balanced (Stasser & Titus, 1985).

5. End on Curiosity, Not Closure

Instead of wrapping with "Nice," extend the thread: "That's cool—how did you get into that?" Curiosity activates reward circuitry and boosts engagement (Gruber et al., 2014)

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